Forrest Gump and his box of choclates.

[littlebitlost]

Well then LILY...I am in ONtario....a fellow canadian, eh? LOL!

FOrrest:
If you can aviod R talk to awhile...do. If she brings it up fine but you have to maintain that you are OK with whatever happens. I know this is hard but dont let anything she says affect you in ways taht she can see it. Save that for later when she isnt around. If she chooses to spend time with you then be the happiest person you can be. You will be that much more attractive to her. DOte on your kids. She will see that in you as a huge thing. (sure as hell isnt going to find that in anyone else in relation to your kids) the things she starts to see are going to hurt her and trust me she will probably resist. Noone likes to be wrong about the decisions they make and nobody wants to have to eat crow but if she is as confused as I was she will realize, once she sees how happy you are that you might be what she wanted and needed all along. I am glad that you had fun at the beach. It is FREEZING here so I am jealous!!!!!!

and if you fall off the boat forrest

'SWIM, FORREST, SWIM'!!!!!!