I guess what I want someone to say right now is that it will be alright. That these things will stop soon and life will start to get better again. I need someone to care about me and recognise my pain.
Things will be alright, the pain will go away one way or another, your life will resume and you will be happy.
All true, BUT (big caveat here) there are degrees to all of this and what you're faced with now are the questions how OK do you want things to be, how happy do you want to be? Cause you can get there from here with little work but it'll take longer and may not be as satisfying in the end. Or, you can work on yourself, take an active role in the creation of your life and the banishment of your grief and you might like the end result more.
Like was said above, I think it's healthy to take the time to feel what you're feeling, to process it. But I don't think it's healthy to wallow in it. So, take whatever time you need to process and when you're sick and tired of feeling like that, get up and do something about it. Tells us about it when you do, we're your biggest cheerleaders. God bless.
Me: 32 in OH Wife: 29 in MD Married: 4 years No kids Seperated 14 months
