Still trying to win WAW back (#2)

[mkultra]

Dave, the first thing you must do is stay positive and GAL!!! If she has suffered from depression and if your family is child centered than these can contribute to her detachment. She may resent you as a scapegoat, but these are also her issues. She may feel she has lost her attraction but believe me, as soon as someone else shows interest so will she! She is in a vulnerable place so do not push her away or towards divorce. This is not about pride. It takes os much humility to DB but it also takes confidence that you will be happy no matter what.

Kissing is good. Staying in the house is ideal. Put your marriage first and the kids second. Read everything you can on the passionate marriage and lighting your fire. Thi sounds hard to believe but do not take that attraction stuff personally. We can all talk ourselves back into falling in love. It is a choice and action. It is not cosmic or even that romantic. It is really just in our heads.