Max, I have to agree with Shell. People say what they feel at that moment. Even when they are calm. I have also said similiar things to my H repeatedly and look wher I am, DBing. I often wonder when the tables will turn and he will begin to DB and I may detach. That is why we cannot believe half of what they say. Sometimes the grief is only temporary. Things brighten up and DBing takes a lot of patience, more than a few weeks unfortunately.
Staying positive is the best thing to do all around. I had to tell myself either way I was better off. Either I will get a better spouse if H comes around or I will get a better life if I got rid of a H who is not good for me. Either way we are all better off after DBing and GAL.
Last edited by mkultra; 10/13/0710:17 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
