Wanted to run this past you folks. My partner is doing everything with the OP that we used to do. We used to hike on such and such a mountain, and so they are now. This was our restaurant, now it's theirs. Like the OP stepped into my shoes, only to do the exact same things. Is this common? It's almost as if my partner is comparing me and the OP and gauging our reactions to the same things. Is this something that is part of the script? Is there anything I can do to deflect this?


"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson