P42, way to go! Stay dark, keep up the good work. Find a way to drive around her house...an alternate route if possible, especially if you have the kids with you. Also do not ask the kids for info on the OM or mommy...PERIOD.

Remember that most affairs and/or rebound R's start out hot and heavy, then after a few months the honeymoon's over and reality sets in. She'll be nagging him to take out the trash and he'll want her to lose weight...stay positive and start dating...trust me, newly divorced guy world is like a sexual Disneyland.

Me - 46 She - 36 Daughter - 10
Married 10 yrs
1st Bomb Date 12/17/06
(Merry Christmas!)
D Bomb in January
(Happy New Year!)
Every other week custody of D10
She has OM who helped her walk away
Divorced 07/05/07