Now I've done it.... again #4?

[nephartiti]

Thanks, lwb. I forgot about that aspect--that I might feel crappy and regret it after (like when I left that nasty v-mail about the porn...).

OK, that does mean something. Living a morally sound life. That is the real difference here. Sure, he might be out having fun, but he is the one really giving up a lot here. All I'm losing is him, and I just finished saying that maybe that's not such a horrible thing after all.