Hey, in hindsight, I do have something to add here! You mentioned the concept of DBing as staying her friend etc and you are right, that is one method BUT the crux of DBing is to look at what you are doing and guage the results. If being her "best friend", protector etc isn't getting you any closer to your goal then you MUST do something different. That is DBing "if it isn't working, stop doing it and try something different". This is often a stumbling block for most of us because we get in our heads that a certain approach is THE approach and keep pushing it despite getting poor results. Your job now is to give her space, let her live her life without your expert guidance otherwise she isn't really without you, she can't miss you! That is hard to do, I know, but often what is hardest to do brings the best results. Good luck to you.
