This is a roller coaster ride with its ups and downs. Consider your conversation with your W as one of the downs. I think where we stand is an average (over time) of the WAS words and actions. I would try not to react to what was said during a single conversation. DB the best you can, wait and start averaging the words and actions.
A month ago my wife said we were done, yet after doing the LRT and moving on with my life she is starting to show interest and is looking for excuses to get together. Now I am on an up but I am not overly excited because I am averaging this up with the downs I've experienced.
