Thanks for the comments / advice. My W was my best friend. I will say that recent interactions have been positive and that is a good sign. I guess that our minds will sometimes create a drama that may not even exist. My mantra is "actions speak louder than words." I have to keep that in the forefront of my mind. I am a patient man, more patient than I would have thought before all of this, but if there was any situation that warranted infinite patience, it is this one. I will not try to push things, I know that could kill any chance of reconciliation. Perhaps becoming great friends will eventually lead to a great marriage. Hey, at least she has not filed for divorce and has not mentioned it either. My cell phone is on her account. Rather than bring the billing issue up again (I had previously told her how we need to create seperate accounts) I simply deposited my half of the bill into her account.
It seems that the potential divorce is the elephant in the room that neither W or I are discussing. No news is good news, right?
