I also think it would be best for him to come home. He has to think it is his idea though.
My H's depression also puzzled me. I had no idea how much his manhood had been undermined in every part of his life. There is a difference between situational depression and clinical.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."