trytoohard, it is SO good to hear from you. I remember you very well. You sound fantastic and I am so pleased to hear that your H haulted the D. I think what DB'ing really comes down to after a while is a change in attitude. We discover we don't need our H's to survive. At first it feels like we will die without them, but eventually with time and prayer, we learn otherwise. And it is then that our H's take notice and want to be around us more (or at least realize they made a mistake). Hugs to you and I hope it works out the way you want.
Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.
