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Pamar,

I'm a Brit too and that was not venting.

C'mon man - give it up a bit more!!!!!!!

You need an OM voodoo doll!!!!

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Saffie,

Gotta go - Goooooooo England.

Voodoo doll sounds great, though I would probably tear it to shreds.

Don't feel the need to vent at the mo, life is getting there.


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Pamar,

Just sent you an email I thought you might appreciate!!!!!

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Hi Pamar-

Sorry that your W accessed her "secret" email. No so much of a "secret" if you know about it.

You're so strong to keep with the patience and knowing that it wasn't the best to bring up the email in the C session. Sounds like it went okay. Keep in mind that there are some of us whose S would never go to a C. I tried 6 years ago with my H. He went, but didn't contribute. Sounds like your W is contributing.

Hey, I need to run. Hope the kids are doing well.

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Saffie,

Guess it sucks to be an Aussie at the moment! Thanks, gave me a good laugh.

SueS,

No, not really a secret, as it pops up in the address bar when I go to type in another address. I run a cleanup programme to remove all my internet download files so I won't be tempted to search, so at least I know I won't peek when that is run.

Bro coming across tomorrow and we will all watch the rugby together. Time to take it to the French.


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Pamar-

Thanks for stopping by my thread. You sure know how to boost my mood.

Have a great weekend and fun with your Bro. Hope you have a great DB & "as if" weekend. You still have a week or two before holiday right? Do you have pictures up anywhere on the board? I don't, but am thinking of it.

Have fun!

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Hi Pamar, no need for a spanking. Day 1 of no snooping is coming to a close. \:\) \:\)

Have a great weekend!

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lwb,

Awwww, could you not just peek a little bit. LOL

SueS,

We fly out on Wednesday morning, so 4 days to go. W was in a miserable mood this morning, but I partly put it down to hormones and DBd to die for.

Interesting comment made to W by Counsellor, along the lines of W not setting boundaries, as she wished to act the martyr. W responded that she didn’t want to hurt my feelings (huh!!!!!).

Strange conversation this morning (probably explains the confusion and trouble I get into). W forgot to pick up some work stuff from a friend last night. I offered to collect it and had a ‘don’t bother, I’ll get it on the way to work’. So I then get up to start getting dressed and W says ‘aren’t you going for those things?’ Confused……you will be.


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OK, night before we set off and I am feeling nervous about the holiday. 10 days together with just the children.

W is tired and cranky at the moment, so I am talking softly and trying to DB like mad. Made a few mistakes, but also trying not to beat myself up for them.

I have sorted out her MP3 player, sorted out the washing and will take her to work. Signing off for 10 days and will hopefully be singing next time I'm on the site; here's hoping.


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Pamar,

if you expect the worst it can only be better!!!!!LOL

Better to be away next Saturday - SA are going to hammer us - AGAIN!!!! Glad U liked the email.

Hope you are singing next time you are on - even if it makes it rain!!!! I always get cranky the night before holidays - doesn't mean the holiday will be bad - just hate all that packing.

Will be thinking of you.

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