I don't believe the 'we wouldn't have ever been together if I wasn't so passive' stuff.
I agree with Red. I think this is 100% bullshi$$. I think he has forgotten that he loves you. In your sitch I think that there is a good chance a separation would shock him into realising what he was missing.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
