I definitely think you need to look over on the MLC forum and maybe start a thread over there for those guys to give you some answers.

I think you 2 have been together long enough, I don't believe the 'we wouldn't have ever been together if I wasn't so passive' stuff.

Also, I think you need to truly think about the texting issue. Do you really think he's not having an A? 'Nop' over in the SSM forum is an expert on this issue!!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10