So... W calls earlier and I let it roll to VM. Didn't leave a message. She calls back later and I answer... she wants to meet at a Dairy Queen and talk. I was available, so I agreed.
She texts me an hour later and says "Just want to talk as friends OK?"
I responded "OK"
She responded "Cool"
I get there and she looks great... man she looks good. I acted cool.. played off. She said I looked and smelled good (ha!!).
We talked about all sorts of stuff. We are selling our horse trailer, so she asked about when it was going. She said we needed the money "Even if we are staying together". It was nice to hear that. I told her I had to drive to TN, so I would need to work that out with her. She said she had plans next Sat
Everything went fine... she's going to the L's today so that was discussed a little. She invited me back to her place (on the way to mine and only 1-2 minutes away) and I accepted.
We get there and I'm teasing her about things. Her back was hurting and I told her I would massage it but she would like it too much. She asked what was wrong with me. Then started pinging about where I was going tonight etc.
Then MIL shows up with groceries. This is harsh because MIL has played a big part in our R/M and I reminded her that this was W's choice and she needs to let her handle it. Well... there she is groceries in hand!!
Anyway.. I go to leave and W asks if I'm going out to which I respond yes.. "Who with.. where". "Out with friends" and I walked out.
I went downstairs and remembered I needed to coordinate a call time for the D's. I called her place and said "Stop talking about me!!" She responded pleasantly "Shut up!!" Bantered for a sec then set the time.
I'm feeling good!!
Then I come home and read her email.. I know.. bad but here are the highlights:
1. OM is due back Sunday and they are setting up a sexual encounter. This bothers me because she has the D's on Sunday.
2. OM's Ex (they just finalized) supposedly introduced her new fiance (imagine how that's going!!) to W and said "Maybe all four kids will be a family soon" referring to their 2 and our 2. That scares the hell out of me.
3. OM's Ex wants them all to go riding horses together.
I know I shouldn't be reading it, but it puts some things in perspective for me. He'll be back on sunday and the email will stop. I'll be back in the dark.
Man.. this sucks. Oddly, I didn't feel all weirded out like I normally do around her.
I need to get one of the affair books this weekend. I tend to feel better when I know what's going on, and maybe that will help.
She had an appt with her L, so I'm sure she will be pissed.
