My first thought when I read that was "oh, yeah..that's true..I wouldn't want to give the wrong impression." But then my second thought was "why not?"
Cause you still want to reconcile at some point, yes? If not, then you're right, why not do it.
Don't you think this is a little reactionary, anyway? I mean, two weeks ago, you were waiting for his phone call, wondering what the subtext of smallest portions of your conversations meant. Now you're talking about buying a house and moving out. I get it, I've done the same things myself and I've found that the smaller I can keep the changes I make the better off I am. If you do want him back at some point, you need walk the line between moving on and leaving a trail for him to follow to get to you. Buying another house, in my mind, doesn't leave that trail.
Of course, you could be thinking you don't care if you leave a trail for him and again I would point to reactions versus resolutions. Resolve to be happy and healthy but don't react to his crappy treatment of you by throwing up your own roadblocks to reconciliation. Owning a separate house, again in my opinion, is a roadblock.
But, if I had the asnwers, I wouldn't be here myself
