What he is doing is a bit like mental cruelty - even if he doesn't know he's doing it. Cuddling you whilst telling you he doesn't love you but then telling you he cares.
It seems that he doesn't want to be seen as the bad guy and so this is his way of dealing with it. He needs to be straight about it all.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength