I'm in the Uk so I am not up on US law but does it make a difference if you leave the house? Does it give H extra rights over the property. Over here there can be abandonment issues. Check things out before doing anything too drastic.
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Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength