My Wife wants out..still!!

[dadtotwo]

My W is relentless with bringing up the papers to be filled out for the mediator. She says that she doesn't want to go through a L and have me served and is hoping to do this amicably. I suggested that we go to family and parent counseling, before doing the papers, so we can be prepared to parent seperately. She has refused stating that we will not get back together. She only sees this as an attempt to reconcile but it is more important to get us to a better place in our R so we can be the best parents we can under difficult circumstances. If she was to open her eyes during PC that would be great.

I am refusing to cooperate since she left and wants a D so she will have to be the one to end our M.

Am I doing the right thing???