(((((Nikki))))))
That SUCKS! I am so sorry. You know I don't have anything (advice wise) to offer to you since I am further behind in this process. All I can say is that I have admired your strength and growth and appreciated no end the advice you've posted to me.

You didn't mess anything up. Not at all.

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing