Sorry, this sucks, doesn't it? Looking back, there was a point I wish I had 'encouraged' xh to move out sooner. lol We both started to calm down a lot after the immediate pressure was off.
Maybe your timeline for him is too short?? I'm not saying you made the wrong choice, just suggesting it really may be difficult for him to get it figured out so quickly.
I do think you should stick with it. Otherwise, you lose credibility. Did you tell him you wanted to D? Or just that, if he didn't want to work more on the M, he had to go? Because I find this telling:
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He said he has worked on this M
It's hard to say. Depending on how you phrased your try-or-move-out-stance, he may be defending himself here, or even, in his own way, been trying to talk you out of it.
