Hi wantlove! My H's only contact with me in over a year has been flowers. He refuses all other contact from my DD, me or his parents and sister. I am still hopeful and hanging in there. One person told me that my H is actually being really caring. He knows, and feels guilty, about how he is behaving and is keeping me out of it, safe. So I keep that tucked in my heart - he is keeping me safe from the insanity and try not to worry too much about the other stuff. (but I do have those "I want to kill him days" or "how can he do this to his DD" days)
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing
