Sorry that your W accessed her "secret" email. No so much of a "secret" if you know about it.
You're so strong to keep with the patience and knowing that it wasn't the best to bring up the email in the C session. Sounds like it went okay. Keep in mind that there are some of us whose S would never go to a C. I tried 6 years ago with my H. He went, but didn't contribute. Sounds like your W is contributing.
Hey, I need to run. Hope the kids are doing well.
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day