NikkiB #21

[stubborn]

ok, Nikki, let me rant: he's a fu*ktard and doesn't deserve you. But we've known that for months now so...next step? Continue taking care of you:

Want to talk legal? Did you buy the house together? If, by chance, you had it first YOU ARE NOT LEAVING! If you bought it together you are ok too. Tell him you are not talking legal things except in legal circles and after you've had time to think. It would be cavalier to jump into legal stuff together as you are not "professionals". and why talk legal stuff while you are living together? Tell him you'll talk about legal stuff when you are separated, but so far, he is still there and HE needs to decide where he REALLY wants to be. All of this said calmly and with great confidence, of course, as only Nikki B can do it! This puts all "decisions" in his court and totally keeps you from being any kind of "bad guy" so that what he does he does to HIMSELF! (I'd like to take a shovel to him right about now and you'd like me to, I know!) Keep telling him that if he wants to talk "legal actions" then he needs to take some action (instead of moping around looking for your sympathy, F-tard!)

Don't talk money and if it means walking away and saying "I can't talk about this" or "do what you have to do" so be it. As to where to post you decide because we will all find you wherever you are!