COG,

Looking back on a recent post, you siad that when you stopped bending over trying to please your W., things began to change. I also remeber a lot of responses that you wrote to me, you stated that you would send your W. lots of emails, pages upon pages of your deepest feelings. Whta did you do to stop bending over backwards and how does that correspond with the lengthy emails, which seems ike pursuit. It tookyou W. four long years, but it seems from recent conversations with my D17, W. is prepping her for us to be D.