FLTC,

Divorce is painful and it can tear families apart. But the kid's will do as well as the parents do with it. If the parents carry the anger, resentment, hurt and fear with them, then so will the kids.

I hope you don't think that I am telling you D is the best option. I'm trying to get you to look at life differently. Look past the emptiness of pain, and see the cup half full.

I'm convinced that your W has zero desire to re-enter your M the way it was, the way YOU were. What she decides to do, is between her and her God. YOU have a life path of your own. The sooner you embrace it, acknowledge it, and accept it, the sooner you can heal and move on. You may save your M, or may not, but either way you'll have to stand up to her, and demand she treat you with respect.

Question for you: What/Who is God?

COG


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