I'm thinking of being very difficult to reach and very quiet during this time.
Don't think it. DO IT! The repeated message you are seeing over and over from everyone posting in your thread is: BACK OFF, GIVE HER SPACE!!! Just do it. Things have started to change for me since I finally wised up and started doing it.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”