I'm sorry.. my mind is running a mile a minute. One more question.

H tried to get into legal stuff last night. One minute he was telling me "just take everything, take whatever you want" [implied: but get out]. The next it was "I'm going to get screwed over in this and it isn't fair." Got a little bit into how I saved all my money but he bought "us" everything.. stuff like that... not even sure what he was getting at there.

I didn't agree to anything, tried to head it off by saying "Not now, that's all legal stuff" and once said "I'm not going to intentionally screw you over but I'm going to pursue whatever's legal and fair."

Is that the best way to handle it?

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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