I dont believe there is OP. We talked about it and I dont get any indication from their friends that there is. I however still wonder because her behavior is so black/white...
She did call me yesterday crying. Her dad laid the hammer on her about her actions, thinking, etc. She really looks up to her dad. Of course she was pretty mad at him. Not sure what he said would have much effect, but her looking to me for comfort might be a good result of it.
She left this morning to go out of town for 6 days. We will only run into each other in 2 of the next 12 days. Even after the positive emails and upbeat messages, she was pretty cold when she left. That was a bummer. I'm thinking of being very difficult to reach and very quiet during this time.
I know when she gets back that the separation idea will be front and center. I think she should be the one who leaves and gets the reality check of being out of the house and the challenges with the kids. She's not going to go for that and it would be a huge battle I think. Not sure what to do here.
