I was forceful with my husband. He was like a kid who had homework and just wouldn't get to it. I just said " I feel better after we dialogue. And if we don't dialogue I feel bad. We need to dialogue at least 3 or 4 times a week." And then I stuck to the number. I don't remember which it was. It may only have been 3 because then there was a dialogue at the post session. Every other day is not too much. And there was always homework too. So we couldn't take too many breaks.
