Sorry I didn't write back sooner... My H is out of town so things here are crazy.

Anyways, you should stop snoopinng, you are going to drive yourself nuts! We are all guilty of it at one time or another, but its not worth it.

you really need to detach and act "as if" Listen if she calls, but like I said, don't really offer any advice to her, just let her vent. I wouldn't elaborate on anything that you are doing.. let her just see the changes.

Take Care..

tal

me: 37
H: 44
Married for 18 years this june
S7
S3
porn issues, and much more... since 7/06

Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.