I have been following your thread you are doing well. Are you confused at what you want in the R or at what you want for you?
Sounds to me like w is trying to work on her issues at least.
Thanks, I am confused at both the R and M. But..... Yes my w was talking to me about taking some "job workshop" classes. She wants to take (resume writing, interviewing) and then she said she also needs to take a "self esteem" class. I do think my W is trying but It is hard not to (in my mind) think there is an artier motive. No intimacy. No physical contact initiated by her.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know