I have been following your thread you are doing well. Are you confused at what you want in the R or at what you want for you?
Sounds to me like w is trying to work on her issues at least. I would stay where you are until she at least make some sort of commitment towards the M verbally but, that is my OP. She hasn't yet has she? I didn't miss something in your thread did I .
By the way the ring thing is way cool. Congrats.
JAK
MAT,
(((((hugs)))))
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