neph, its nice to have things look good. the new cabinent doors must look so nice! I swear I re-arranged/changed around everything I could during the first couple of months. and I finally bought new bedding. our old stuff was from our wedding 10 years ago...H picked it out, I never really liked it very much, and this summer it was a constant reminder of him. so I picked out/bought new stuff and I LOVE it. love not thinking of him every single time I crawl into bed. not that I don't, but its different.
I also make the bed every morning. honestly, its not something I care all that much about, turns out it was a huge pet peeve of my H's. who knew? anyway, I do now, partly because early on it was one of my 180s, partly because well, I love my new bedding.
hope all is okay. (((HUGS)))
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
