Thanks for the post 25.. I think you are right in that they want a guarantee about everything. I guess what it comes down to is that they want to be guaranteed happiness no matter what the choice. Well, we all know there are no guarantees and I have chosen not to answer the question right now as to whether or not I can "get over" all of the hideous things he has said and done to me. And, yes.. he remembers them..
As for your question on whether or not we have fun together. Yes! For the past six months, I have let it all go for nights, days, weekends of fun. I'm so fun it's scary
Seriously, a lot of time has passed and I do think he's gotten used to the ways things are... Except... now ow is D'd and I believe he's been getting pressure there and I have certainly begun to tell him where I stand and that he needs to decide for everyone's sake. I'm not willing to live like this... No, ultimatum yet but... he gets the picture...
This has been a weird week of H sending me love notes and helping around the house to no calls at all during the day. HOT and COLD... He is obviously a tormented man. I'm simply trying to stay out of the way.
