Could you clarify your question a bit more for me? Replicated below.....
"Anyway, I am confused about one thing. At what point this went from you being done and him begging to come back, to you wanting him to come home and him wanting to do his own thing? "
Some of my most unfavourite things to hear from him (habitually) "Fine" "whatever" "if you want" "it's up to you" "we'll see"