Nomo--
Being the turkey?!

Anyway, I was asked to attend Thanksgiving with my whole in-law family by my MIL. She has said that H would be invited, but if he thought that CW was going, they could both stay home.

I am strongly considering my aunt's offer to go to her house in Brooklyn...

H has already "confirmed" in his head that I am at fault that he is estranged from his family. If I decline, he will have to face going--or not--all by himself.

I hate to do that to the kids, though, so I am thinking about it.