Yes, I agree is not good to repeat a pattern or fall back into the same patterns. I think it may be best to actually get lighter than heavier in terms of thinking. Kind of like when we got out of high school, not in a MLC way, more like in a positive future way.

My friend is getting married this weekend. She says this guy is the love of her life and she will grow old with him, retire and be his travel companion. She is 59 and he is 64. It is very romantic and they are best friends!

We don't have to be afraid to be alone.


Me:38 H:39 MLC
M:10 R:23 years
D6 S3
Bomb: Easter, 2007
"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."