I am with ya there! My H is also having the affair that states My Marriage Made me Do It mixed in with a little Revenge and Desirability also. But it is not hopeless considering there is DR and we can clearly see what they are going through.
How does your H have issues with Desirability? Is it because H is jealous of the baby? I wish there was a better word than jealous. I find it hard to believe that a grown man can feel displaced by a baby, but that is also what our MC mentioned and all the symptoms seem to fit?
I also read that the child centered family is responsible for a lot of modern marital strife.
What would Dr. Sears say about that? My H was so on board with attachment parenting? What did I do wrong? I guess it is all about balance.
I warned my friend who is a new mom to an adopted baby boy. She will not put the baby down for a minute until the paternal rights have expired. She is so obsessed with her miracle son that she has totally neglected her H. Friends are warning her that her H feels left out but she says, "So what! he is a grown man."
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Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
