Yea! Thanks, ST. I really appreciate the encouragement. I had not gone dancing for years because I didn't think I should risk it. Then I get out there and find out that it seems that half the people out there are married and just love to dance. (This is the water-drinking crowd, not the club crowd...)

Anyone else have any thoughts?

Are we really talking about years? As much as I love my husband and want it to work, I can't wait years. I started counseling thinking I would give it 6 months to a year. It has already been more than a year. I know I can do another 6 months, but after that...(This started in the car, on the way home from taking our daughter to freshman orientation at college. Talk about timing!)

I remind myself something I learned yesterday: "today. probably tomorrow. rinse. repeat." (Thanks, JTB)