I think MIL is the part of the issue. I know I've had plenty to contribute, but my W had bulemia (sp?) in HS. I've been told by many educated people that you don't just "get" that in HS. I know how she is, and she's contributed a ton as well.

I don't blame her though.. my parents are circling around me. That's what you would expect them to do.

What's funny, is even my counselor is ready to straighten her out. Why is it everyone else can see but them??