So some time back I had one of those "d'uh!" moments. I was thinking about how I seemed to be living in so much fear, fear of divorce, fear of being single, fear of dating, fear that I had lost my wife, fear that my employment situation wouldn't change, etc. Then it hit me like a ton of bricks the opposite of fear is faith. Trust in God, have faith in His plan for your life, have faith that He will take care of you. It was so liberating!
Now the reality is we have to practice faith each and every day otherwise fear creeps in and takes over. I've had a fear based day and it's has sucked all day. Time to get myself back on track. For you FLTC it sounds like its time to get on track and get off the fear train.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa