I really think that we make ourselves sick but we can make ourselvces happy. Let's suppose you thoght like a beginner. What dude would want to date someone who thought about them 24/7. No ways. Especially a dude that is not sure if he is into you. I know that people in love are not supposed to act this way but these wayward spouses are already talking themselves into thinking that they are no longer in love. So think like a beginner. Stay ineresting and act happy and get a life. Remember that a happy spouse is extremely difficult to leave. That image of you and he growing old together is great if you both have the same Northern Star. If not, focus on something more goal oriented like cooking a great meal, or finishing one house project or talking to frineds about their lives instead of ours, etc.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
