One other thing - something you didn't address at all, but I had to wonder. Isn't LW at his current job? Is there an undercurrent here, even a small one, that part of the reason for this job change is for H to distance himself from her - because he knows that would please you?
I had the same thought, but forgot to post it last night.
Me: 37 M: 14 yrs Separated 10/06; Filed for D 12/07 Life is good.
