Hey man...hope the dentist appointment went as well as a dentist appointment can go.
Sounds like you have a good game plan man. Deep breaths. You WILL be ok! Hell man...I never thought I would be but I'm starting to see that if she can't or refuses to change (which is what has happenend) then I am better off without her. And I've found that there is a big beautiful world out there just waiting for me to discover it.