That's a hard question. Is there any other reason to be in the neighborhood? Do you know any DBers close to where she currently is? It would be better if you could say you are going to be in the neighborhood, would she like to get together, rather than asking if you can come see her. If you can possibly handle the rejection really well, and can phrase it in a manner that has no pressure attached, then I say you should go for it. The worst that can happen is she'll say she doesn't want you there. In which case you say, "okay, no problem" and show it doesn't hurt (even if it does).
Do you think she's met someone new?
See the thing is that she is in Michigan for work. So me being in the neighborhood is kinda strange. I do know that she has a friend that she meet in her training class when she went through it back in July. He lives in Iowa so Im not worried about that. But I did find some half naked pic's on her phone that she sent him. Which crushed me. When I confronted her about it she just that I didnt understand, she didnt mean anything by it and she just likes to tease him. Other than that, that is the only thing. I think it was an emotional affair and she always needs the attention anyway. I try not to think about what goes on between them, it makes my mind wonder and I will go insane.. I know that she likes the threater so I purchased some tickets when we are in denver, this is a change because she was always trying to get me to go to a musical. Im just hoping that giving her time and space until we get to Denver where we can be together that my actions and the way I act, she will see that I am a different person and hopfully she will be attracted to me again...I have noticed some changes in me and the way I act so maybe she will see them also and give us another chance or just the thought of her giving us another chance will be enough for me..
I know people tell me to do stuff that I enjoy so I am leaving for Nashville tonight (actually in about an hr) for a softball tournament (softball that is another sore subject with her) and I will not be back on her until monday. Please reply, I appreciate your feedback and I will post monday and let you know if she calls me..
