Keep giving CVA and I those tips, Waw, just in case we need them in the future.

Mini-journal about the day's doings:
Met with principal about oldest D having problem in her class and not enjoying school as much as she has in the past (there is a boy that she does not like and who is not fond of her in her class, one of those disruptive kids). At any rate, while we explained that the separation is affecting her, neither of us believe that's the main reason for Lauren's school issues. Anyway, good conversation. I had also instigated this meeting by pointing out to W that she didn't seem to be enjoying school as much. A 180 for me.

On the way back from the meeting, left W a VM about scheduling a wart apt for Lauren for tomorrow. Said "I'm sorry to nag, but need to set that up." Sent me an email, said not a problem had forgotten and gave me numbers for the doc so I would have it. Went ahead and scheduled the apt for her for tomorrow. W appreciative. One of her major complaints was that she always had to do the scheduling for this type of stuff. Small, but a 180 for me.

She called me to remind me of the meeting this a.m. (I actually got there before her). Jokingly said, "What meeting?" Met with a stunned silence. Just kidding, almost there. Bye. She arrives and semi-apologizes for calling. Said no problem, but I don't need a minder any longer, just a partner.

Met at noon to buy bday presents for Casey at Toysrus. Joked around a bit. Made her laugh a few times. Figured out a split so I can go to a Halloween party on the weekend I have the girls. Touched her arm/side too much (have to stop doing that; it's like a damn reflex. I literally have to consciously tell myself not to. If I'm just looking at something while we're chatting, it's like muscle memory takes over).

Checked out. She said go put the stuff in the van. "I don't have a key to your van." Kind of got an "oh" look.

Talked for a minute or two at the van. Can't remember exactly what I said, but it was not DB kosher, but nothing major. Said bye, gave each other a hug and left

BD


My latest

Me: 36
W: 35
2 D: 9 and 5
T: 16 years
M: 12
10/4/06: Bomb
10/5/06: Ended A
4/22/07: ILYBNILWY

I'm a beautiful butterfly.