That's a hard question. Is there any other reason to be in the neighborhood? Do you know any DBers close to where she currently is? It would be better if you could say you are going to be in the neighborhood, would she like to get together, rather than asking if you can come see her. If you can possibly handle the rejection really well, and can phrase it in a manner that has no pressure attached, then I say you should go for it. The worst that can happen is she'll say she doesn't want you there. In which case you say, "okay, no problem" and show it doesn't hurt (even if it does).
Do you think she's met someone new?
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
