My only worry is that you may be reading things wrong, and if that's the case, I'm concerned that you are going to fall apart in front of her, and come across weak and needy.
That's why I think it's important that you be mentally prepared for the R "ending" (just in case!!!!). And if this makes it any easier, just because someone says it's over one day, doesn't mean that in two months they can't change their minds.
Don't have expecations. Life is short, just live it.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
well NOTHING to report. Spouse left me a msg she was going to see counselor, go to yoga and then wanted to come by and "see you guys" after class. So she did. Spent some time, put D to bed and then left. Nothing said. Ok, I'll wait a bit longer. She is taking tomorrow off and will take D to school. Ok,....
Jules, you won this one fair and square. I am horrified that they threw all that stuff onto the field. That NEVER happens. I thought your coach was classy to pull his guys. Tomorrow? Who knows.
I have a shovel and I'm not afraid to use it. Stubby